Gaining trust

People often mistake a smile and friendly personality as an easy victim, what they don’t understand is that acceptance of who you are comes in those treats. People walk on eggshells around others fairing the worse and searching for a friendly person into who to trust and be trusted, more often than not we trust the wrong the person, been that the case, we shouldn’t be recipient of fair, what should happen will happen, walking forward is our only advantage, advantage that we should not take as granted but as on open door for the better.

One mistake what we often make is victimized ourselves often, yes you are a victim, circumstances have defined it, you should be more than what a data results say, be the person you want and wanted to be. More than not I try to find someone to trust but when I do they “back stab me” that should not stop me or you from trusting again, the fault rely on the other not you, so again don’t victimized yourself or be on aggressor be the best you, and move on. Trusting someone is easy to some for other it’s come with a smile but betraying that trust harm someone forever, for other it’s just a scratch that’s heal, we should not make it becomes a wound that need constant care and reassurance, a scratch heal just like a wound it’s up to us if we leave it to heal or fester within yourself.

I know it sound a little contradicting, really they are people that is very difficult for them to trust others when they do the blow of betrayal is lethal so they walk on eggshells not trusting no one always seen the worse or even waiting for the worse. Other move on without letting a betray affect for them is without consequences and those for me, are survivors always searching moving on with open mind, other it’s hurts but they don’t let it bother then just learn from it and tuck it as experience learn. Gaining trust sound and should be easy, it’s not, it’s a constant work, time, effort and in the end it pay off you won’t only gain trust, perhaps just perhaps a new family, it leave up to you to decide should I trust she/he or just move on, well decision is all up to you, you should know better or for advice or a friendly opinion that never hurts.

Tell me a story about trust….

Fashion Ethical jewelry 30% Discount-Code

Like I wrote before I will be giving a discount code on a ethical jewelry brand, Little Sky Stone. If you are those or you know someone who love dainty jewelry this brand is a great choice.

This brand is a artisan jewelry online store. Their dainty earrings, necklace and rings it’s the look of the decade, gone was the days when you have big tier drops earrings not the dainty ones looks more sophisticated and classy looking. The combination of more than one necklace around your neck isn’t trashy but elegant because of its dainty design, their rings a created to be adjustable to fit any finger size because of its thinnest.

Discount code:Candy30

That is why if you use the discount code: Candy30 you will receive a 30% on any of your purchases, just go to their website LittleSkyStone to have access to any of their products or visit the Instagram page Littleskystone.

Discount Code….soon. Helping with one can.

Be sure that soon I will be sharing a discount code of 30% for a ethical jewelry brand. Ho or that you guys can purchase these jewelry and help others. At this moment this brand Little Sky Stone is donating most of its income to wild fire that is devastating Australia. So you will be contributing to this great cause a help with one can.

Ethical Fashion, Eco- and handmade craft jewelry

Many may say “jewelry is jewelry” so why distinguish between one from the other? Ethical jewelry is more about empowerment, suiijpporting good cause and eco jewelry on the other hand is all environmental responsibility making sustainable jewelry’s that don’t damaging or affect environment/human. In many cases many don’t know that they are jewels designers eco and ethical conscious about their work, and their fashion design also helps others and great causes.

Many of the eco- jewelry designer handmade their jewels and are inspired not only by the environment but also by other lifestyle.

These are the brand that I have choose, they may not be located in the same country or continent, one thing I can tell you their purpose is the same. so if you are a traveler and by any means visit these places, make a STOP and purchase one of these beautiful jewelry.

Mi Oceano an eco friendly brand, proudly support a small Island environmental lifestyle (little Corn Island) this untouched beauty is located about 70 kilometers East off the Caribbean Coast of Nicaragua. This small brand gets its equipment (coconut shell) from a restaurant owner and local resident Mrs Bridget who make makes coconut oil using traditional methods, she discard the shell witch is collected by Mrs Jo for Mi Oceano use. With the shell mi oceano creates beautiful necklaces and earrings and the blue necklace are hand painted.

Beside creating beautiful pendants out of coconut shell and other accessories, it also sell bamboo straw that is 100% organic and reusable. Mi oceano base is located in Cornwall UK, even do the source of their products is hundred miles away making a different is possible where ever you are.

Franfale a Colombian handmade brand who owner is Mrs Alejandra a talented Colombian, who created many designs for herself, daughter and family members, dreaming of day creating design for others. With this she also inspired her daughter Jeanina who also work alongside her mom as representative of sale and marketing manager of the brand.

The family business located in valledupar, Colombia uses seeds beads or small mustard flints as you may know it and stainless steel for their creations. The seeds beads is of various colours and are use by indigenous group of Colombia and Latin America in general , in Colombia the Indigenous Embera uses this to create their beautiful design, this is where franfale gets their inspiration. This group are often seen wearing these colorful art, that I may say for me are bohemian style, it’s capture your attention in an instant.

This ethical brand capture it’s inspiration within their own people where many are looking to grass ideas Franfale had it right at hand, Mrs Alejandra living in multicultural environment decide to create jewelry inspired in the local indigenous people. What special about Franfale is that the client can chose the design of their own jewelry choosing colors and patterns, that is why this brand don’t do wholesale. So of you wish to contact them click the link Franfale.

Sustainable and Eco friendly jewelry, Gift with Cause and meaning.

Many of us love jewelry, so do I, if their is something I rather give as a gift is a jewelry, this can last for years as a reminder to a person or a reminder of a special event. In this time we are living in, many of us are conscious about what we are wearing, that also include our accessories. So I put a list of brands that are eco friendly and conscious, so I hope that you take paper and pen in hand and write down these brand name because they are not only Friendly they are low cost you could find from two hundred dollars or less, many says that sustainable fashion are not affordable but these brands says otherwise and highly fashionable accessories that you could wear daily. This brand was created by actress Nikki Reed, it’s a small sustainable jewelry brand all of its product are recycled gold from technology and are handcrafted. If you want to see her product you could go to her web page or visit her Instagram Bayou with Love. For my self I could say many of her design are beautiful and affordable from necklace, rings and earrings that makes a person looks elegant and sophisticated, you could wear it to an elegant event, casual at home, these designs looks delicate and are made in mind to feminine and natural nothing too flashy, that what I see when Bayou jewelry we are talking about. They also have Her bridal jewelry are sophisticated for any women and men jewelry design so feel free to check out bayou with love.

Sustainable Bayou bridal collection

Aurate makes fashionable design for modern women who aren’t afraid to showcase their strength. Diamond and silver maybe the trend in jewelry, Aurete stay strong with Gold, these handcraft design will show your boldness with a touch of elegance. Pippa small is a brand new brand eco friendly, this designer showcase design from different countries where she have travel before, never been afraid of the use of stone color and ethnical design. I consider her design and style bohemian with hight use of color and the eccentricity of it, this brand is one Meghan Markle have use several times during casual event and social outings.

So if you are looking for Christmas gift these brands have what you are looking for. These eco friendly jewellers make it possible for us to cooperate with the earth helping with its sustainability with no damage to the it. Many prefer other brand of jewelry that are not eco friendly that is why these small brand are not highly recognize. So visit their website or Instagram and view their products, buy a eco friendly gift.

No shame in asking

Their is time when we should keep closed mouth other time speaking up is necessary, not many want to hear the thoughts of others much less their necessities and trials, while you may think the person is burning steam by speaking maybe he/she is asking for help without uttering the word “Can you help me”.

Speaking up in time of need should be easy, right?, No is not, in those time you feel vulnerable, hopeless and a failure, it’s normal to feel so nobody should judge not all time you will be on the top many get down on their knees and in those times is when you will know your true friends and family. If they know you good they will take the hint and the unsaid words.

Is understandable the shame that one pass true by asking or for them (begging) for help or assistant from others don’t matter the circumstance. If you don’t ask for help you will make do, the uncomfortable feeling that one have just asking for help is because is the answer one is afraid of, and most of all the circumstance that bring you to asking for help.

Money problem is most uncomfortable for a person to ask for a help from another, it’s set the one asking on the spot, one ask because the need is powerful and swallowing one pride hurts like hell, and shame overkill inside you. Their is no time for pride, only the need and the necessity. So when someone ask for help, help them without condition I know is hard to give something without condition but try it, they are many people in need and the help offer comes with strings attached, those attachment it’s a choker around the seeker and the help isn’t help no more for he/she but a loan with a long time reminder with the whole neighborhood knowing your situation and the why of your solution.

So yes their is no shame in asking , make sure the person you ask is willing by good heart to do and not for you to acknowledge for the entire of your life of the good deed.

When will it be my time to live…

Their is a time for everything, many don’t see it that way, their time start whenever they wish it to be and no thought for others.

You may have heard that “Not all was born to be parents” so true. Some kids grow up with the world on their shoulders, not by choice, but circumstanced, those kids grow up working and taking caring for others without considering their own needs and wants, those are caregiver.

Am the type of person, that consider children should be children, at certain age you give them small chores showing them responsibility. Their are kids at the age of ten years that are the adult in their house, taking care of their little brothers or sisters even their supposed to be parents. Those kids adults barely show emotions wishing that their would be a way out, a change for the better, those kids from a young age learn that basics of necessity is essential, toys, clothes and candy are frivolity. It’s cruel to see kids like those who grow up without seen the joy of an afternoon group play, their mind isn’t on playing but what to do not to be an disturbing kids but a helpful one. Growing up is not the issue, life goes by phase, kids need to be kids, teen-ager need to be teen-ager and adults be adults, each of these phase is a momentum that we live.

Kids and teenage who have a world of responsibilities never find their way out for when it will be their time to live,They selfless think about their selves without thinking about others. Kids who work in their home in part is okay not fully understandable it’s depends on the circumstances, but kids who work to carry food home because mom or dad can’t or don’t look for their children those kids shoulder Adulthood at a young age, this is unacceptable.

Their time to live starts from childhood, the phase of life should not be jump because of unjustified circumstance, live should be live in the fullest potential and childhood education and experience is the most precious memories one have.

Living on Hope

We all live by something, that’s a mantra each person shoulder, We are move by faith, freedom, hope, dreams, by our own reverie of what should be and pray it would be.

Even in the darkest of time, you still believe that tomorrow may be a good day, that’s hope, people may say they don’t believe, in the end we believe in something. We feel uncertain about what life have for us, moving forward is our only option with the illusion of a bright future. People who live with hope, are easily taken advantage of they are believers, you feed them a little lie and they believe, they may think you are a fool that’s far from it. Having hope is believing that they are good in people, in the words that comes out of their mouths and that in the end everyone have hope in their selves and in others, even doe they break your trust more than once.

Most people takes advantage of those who have hope, their is one thing they don’t understand, that Hoping is better than living on unknown occurrence, waiting in despair and hopelessness while one have hope you are waiting for a favorable outcome.

Having hope is having faith that everything will be as it should be, and that he does knows best. One thing you should do is feed people false hope, you may destroy the believe people have in humanity and their kindness, do things without waiting for a return favor, give by choice of your heart desire and not by a means to an end, thats kindness and at the same time you are giving hope to others with a bright possibility for tomorrow. Living on hope is a Sweetness or innocence that a person have withing once destroy may never be recover by sher will few never outgrown it, it’s become part of them dont matter how many times they have been deceived.

In the end every single person live in hope, its like a wish waiting to come true. Never stop hoping in the end that’s all we have, Hope.

Know your Worth

If your are a believer of ” Good bring good thing” make sure to believe in yourself, for starter only those who believe that they can achieve their Wilde’s dreams know that on the way their will be obstacle, they don’t make their dreams get clouded with fictitious illusions, they keep it real with a positive attitude and hope.

We all know that You can’t stop people from talking when you turn your back, so let them, it hurts yes, life goes on. When you know yourself you wont let no one, but no one brings you down, you may be the type that fight back or don’t pay attention to them, whatever the case be happy. Be assured that don’t matter who you are you don’t deserve to live in violence, physically or verbal; you are more than am Sorry, if that words is use more than once a month redefined your life, put You as number one priority. As a person ask for respect and inclusion don’t make no one make decisions for you, yes, I know sometimes you feel to let go the reign and give to someone else, make sure the person know the you within and the outside You.

People tend to believe others, rather than believing in their selves, continually demonstrating that they do not know their worth, only what other says what they are, am not saying you can’t be vulnerable, yes you can, everyone can, make sure you know this, you are more than just a friend, a companion, you are a human being, that knows whats pain is, you are someone who has endure verbal abused who thinks that’s okay, that’s a way of love. You are a capably and intelligent person in your own way and someone who is discovering their selves everyday. Knowing that you can achieve a mile stone, your self-esteem issues diminish a little and a more self-assured Person blossoms with a better understanding of their selves, without abuse of any kind a free person, a vocal outspoken person who don’t shy away who is facing the world.

Keeping things positive in the darkest of times, say’s a lot about the person, their perseverance and determination show the value of their dedication and self value, if you as a person don’t value your selves, who will?, Take that in mind. Don’t believe what other may say about yourself , it can be true or lie,the thing is believe that you can achieve your best and be the best you you can be. Make your weaknesses into strength and combine together discover the you that fearfully wants to emerge.

I can give you steps for you to know your worth, it’s you who needs to discover the real You.

A Little Inspiration II: Baby Flowers names and meaning

You may or may not like strong names that are little hard to pronounce, names a important and in some countries it symbolizes the person character. Here I listed a few flowers, orchid, even trees names that are use for names for a person. The names some are popular and some may not be, their meaning, rarity can be a attribute for the new member of the family.


1. Cattleya or Cataleya: It’s an Orchid in Colombia, this name comes to because of its uniqueness and the beauty of the flowers, it’s easy to pronounce and the meaning is the name of the plant ” Cattley’s Flowers” if am not wrong Cattley’s discover the orchid.

2. Araluen: It’s an Aboriginal Australian place ” water of Lilies” or “Place of the water of Lilies”.

3. Bellerose: This is a French and English name and the meaning “Beautiful Rose”

4. Neeja: Originate from Hindi meaning “Lily”.

5. Raizel: The most popular name in Israel, it maybe consider Unisex name, the meaning of this name is ” Rose” it’s originate from Yiddish.

6. Rayen: It’s a Chilean name from the Mapuch meaning ” Flower”.

7. Winika: It’s originate from Maori meaning ” Christmas Orchid”.

8. Kalina: This is a Polish name meaning ” flower”.

9. Alyssum: This symbolizes ” Worth beyond beauty”, it a great meaning for your baby, another name to Alyssum maybe Alyssa, Allyssa, Alissa.

10. Zariah or Zariyah: These two names have different meaning but also related to other names. Zariah origin and meaning can be related from Arabic name Zara witch means “Flower”, Azaria it’s a Hebrew name meaning ” God has helped”, theor is also a Russian version Zaria that’s means ” Sunrise/ dawn.

11. Iris: This is a beautiful flower that is a symbol of “Faith and wisdom”.

12. Camillia or Camellia: This flower is associated with the moon, water, wealth and perfection. This name means “admiration, perfection and gratitude”.

13. Amaryllis: In Greek it means ” to Sparkle” and related to Lily, it also may mean “Pride”.


You may say it’s strange to give a boy name that’s is related to flowers or the meaning is a flowers, but no their are many boys name that are flowers names, here are some.

1. Rowan: This is a tree a hardy plant with white flowers with Reddish- orange berries.

2. Alder: The only thing I can say about this that it’s a tree.

3. Fiorello: It’s an Italian name meaning ” Little Flower”.

4. Jared: This name in Hebrew means ” Rose”.

5. William: It’s a flower . Sweet William grow in a cluster, meaning ” Gallantry, Grant me one smile”.

6. Yarrow: It’s a name of a strong fragrant herb that blooms into a bright yellow flowers, it’s a unisex name, it’s sounds better on a boy, your preference. This names means ” Healing, Health”.

7. Saffron: It’s a purple color Flower, it’s to my account a unisex name ” gender neutral name”, you could decide.

8. Sage: It’s a delicious and aromatic herb, this boy name also means ” wise”.

I hope these are very useful for you, some names are not flowers but herbs and others and I use them because of their meaning “flowers” or related. Names like

Aster ” Love, Delicacy”

Daisy ” Beauty, Innocence, Loyal love, Purity.

Azalea “Femininity, softness and Passion”

Myrtle ” Love, Peace, Fertility and Youth,

Petunia ” Trumpet shape flowers”

Poppy “Beauty, Fertility, Eternal life” in Latin “Red Flower”

Iona “Purple Jewel” in Hebrew ” Dove”

Willow ” Strength, Stability”

Zinnia “Affection, Remembrance”

Leilani “Heavenly Flowers”

Fern ” Fascination”

Holly “Goodwill and tradition”

Lily ” Purity and Refined beauty”

Ivy ” Friendship, Fidelity, Affection

Dahlia “Elegance and Dignity”

Gardenia “Secret love, you are lovely

Violet “Modesty”

Laurel ” Glory”

Kennedia “Intellectual Beauty”

Rose “Passion, Love, Grace, Purity, Jealousy, Sweetness, Happiness”.

Their are so many more names that have sweet to strong meaning, if you want to combine names that also work. Alyssum Camillia, remember both names have strong meaning one is “worth beyond beauty” the other “admiration, perfectionist”, this is a good combination for a girl and both are flowers names. For a boy I may consider Rowan sage ,for its meaning ” a hardy wise person”. It was very difficult to find flower name that can be use as boy names, that’s why only few names appear, the first are not flowers but the meaning are.

Some of the flowers symbolizes many things and depends on the country the meaning may vary. Like the Roses they are many types Pink Roses, Red Roses, Dark Roses each of those have their own meaning, that also goes for the Lily, Zinnia, Ivy, all of these have variations in types.

Okay, so which name did you like and select a first and second name you may like. And I may have forgotten a mention a name, if it’s so please leave the name in a comment, also combine names and tell me why did you choose these… Want to know what you think….